Talk separately, understand together.
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What is Ref?
An AI reflection partner that listens, understands what’s underneath, and helps you see yourself — and each other — more clearly.
Through private voice sessions, Ref listens to both sides without bias and turns into a shared reflection — honest insights, deeper understanding, and actionable next steps.
Talk privately
Each person shares their side of the story with Ref — separately and safely.
Reflect together
Ref listens without bias, finds what’s underneath, and shows what’s really going on.
Try next step
Get clear, actionable ideas for what to do differently — right when it matters.
Not therapy. Not coaching.
A reflection that helps you understand/untangle and move forward.
Because understanding beats winning — and practice builds connection.
How it works?
Invite someone to talk. Share your story, listen to theirs, and see how your thoughts come together — in one shared reflection.
1. Create a Case
Ref Q&A
See what everyone’s curious about Ref.
What exactly does Ref do?
Is Ref a therapist or a coach?
Is my conversation private?
Who is Ref for?
Do we both have to talk to Ref?
What does it cost?
What makes Ref different from a relationship app or chatbot?
When can I try Ref?
